Gotcha Day gift ideas for dogs and cats, and ways to mark the day they came home

Gotcha Day is what a lot of owners call the anniversary of the day their pet came home. You don’t have to buy anything to mark it. Here are some ideas that cost nothing, a few safety checks before the cake, and gifts for the pet and for the person who loves them.

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Which day counts?

There’s no rule. Some people use the date on the shelter or rescue paperwork. Others choose the day the pet first walked through the door, or the day a foster turned into a “we’re keeping him.” If nobody knows your pet’s real birthday, Gotcha Day can stand in for one.

You’ll also see the phrase used by families who adopted children. This guide is only about pets.

Ways to mark the day that cost nothing

1. Write down how they came home. The details fade faster than you’d think: what the shelter called them, who wanted a different dog, what they chewed the first week. Use the questions further down this page, and keep the answers somewhere you’ll find them next year.
2. Take this year’s photo in the same spot. Pick a place you can come back to, like the front step, the same chair, or the end of the bed. One photo a year, side by side, shows the gray muzzle coming in and the puppy fluff going out.
3. Retrace a first. The first walk you took together, the park where they first met other dogs, or for a cat, the window they claimed in the first week. It doesn’t need to be an outing. It’s a reason to notice them.
4. Give something back to the shelter or rescue. Many shelters list the supplies they need on their website or social pages. Ask before you drop anything off. They may also like a photo of how your pet is doing now.
5. Check the microchip registration. The American Veterinary Medical Association says a chip only helps if it’s registered and the contact details are kept current, and suggests asking your vet to scan it at least once a year (AVMA). The AVMA marks August 15 as Check the Chip Day. Gotcha Day works just as well, and it only takes a few minutes.

Before the cake: treats that are safe

A dog cake or a special dinner is part of the fun for a lot of families. A few things to check first:

• No xylitol for dogs. The FDA warns that this sweetener can be dangerous to dogs. It turns up in sugar-free baked goods, some peanut and nut butters, gum and candy (FDA). Read the peanut butter label before it goes in the cake.
• Skip chocolate, grapes and raisins. The ASPCA lists chocolate, coffee and caffeine, grapes and raisins, and onion, garlic and chives among the people foods to keep away from pets (ASPCA Animal Poison Control).
• No lilies in a cat household. If someone sends flowers for the day, check them. The FDA says true lilies and daylilies are very dangerous for cats, including the pollen and the water in the vase (FDA).

If you think your pet has eaten something it shouldn’t, call your vet or an animal poison control line right away.

Questions to write down their story

Answer the ones you can. Ask everyone in the house, because they’ll all remember it differently.

• Where did you first see them, and what made you stop?
• What were they called before they were yours?
• Who wanted them first, and was anyone against it?
• What did they do the first night?
• What was the first thing they stole, chewed or knocked over?
• Where did they sleep then, and where do they sleep now?
• What nicknames have they collected?
• What do they do that nobody outside the family would believe?
• What’s changed in your life since they came home?

If there’s a child in the house who doesn’t remember life before the pet, Gotcha Day is a good day to tell them the story, including why you chose this one.

Gotcha Day gifts for the pet

• A replacement for the favorite toy that’s been loved down to a rag. Keep the old one if they still want it.
• A new ID tag, if your phone number or address has changed since the old one was made.
• Their own spot, like a bed or a blanket where they already like to lie, or for a cat, a perch by the window they already sit at.
• Time. A longer walk, a game they like, an unhurried brushing.

Gotcha Day gifts for their person

If it’s a friend’s or a parent’s pet whose day you’re marking, the gift is really for them.

• A card from the pet, with the date and the number of years. It costs a stamp.
• A print of your favorite photo of them together, framed. Ask for the original file so it prints sharp.
• A donation to the rescue they came from, in the pet’s name.
• An offer of pet-sitting for a weekend away, written on a card with real dates.
• Their story, kept. The questions above, typed up and printed, or turned into a book (see below).

More guides: long distance grandparent gifts and books for kids who ask why.